Elana Sztokman

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Archive for July, 2009

Israel to expel foreigners in order to “Be like Every other Nation”

July 31, 2009 By: elana Category: Social Activism

This is published in today's English Ynet edition.The announcement this morning by Interior Minister Eli Yishai of Shas that the foreign workers will undergo a "massive expulsion" is surprising not because of Yishai's undaunted ability to withstand public pressure. We've seen that before. What shocked me was his rationale: "Whoever is found will not receive refuge -- just like every 'civilized' country in the world," he said. Actually, the word he used, "metukenet" is difficult to translate. Based on the root "teken", which means either "correct" or "standard", it seems to mean that in a medina metukenet all norms are in order, that rules and regulations are in place to ensure a perceived decorum. Well, chasing out refugees may make us like other nations, but it will hardly make us civilized. Read the rest of this entry →

Facing History and Ourselves: Some Lessons about Education and American-Israeli cultural differences

July 27, 2009 By: elana Category: Jewish education

I've been spending the past week with a very special group of American Jewish educators. These teachers, here for a week-long program on Jewish peoplehood at the Beth Hatefutsoth School for Jewish Peoplehood Studies, come from all over North America and have in common one things -- that they are all implementing the curriculum, Facing History and Ourselves. This is one of the most remarkable pieces of educational work I have ever encountered, a Holocaust curriculum that is so much more. It's about teaching kids to take responsibility and create a different world, one in which hatred and bigotry cannot flourish. "By teaching students to think critically, to empathize, to recognize moral choices, to make their voices heard, we put in their hands the possibility - and the responsibility - to do the serious work demanded of us all as citizens," is what the FHAO Facebook page says. Read the rest of this entry →

Rabbi Broyde does NOT favor women rabbis

July 26, 2009 By: elana Category: Agunot, Orthodox feminism

Excited emails keep coming in from all over the world, "Did you see Michael Broyde's article on women rabbis?" And so despite my discomfort with this whole episode, I'm reposting this blog so people understand the whole picture before they get too excited. Rabbi Broyde took the time to write to me and insist that he absolutely, unequivocally, does NOT favor women rabbis, and that anyone who reads his article and comes to the conclusion that he DOES favor women rabbis would in no uncertain terms be mistaken. He also had some other choice commentary that I believe sheds light on the inner workings of the Orthodox establishment. Let's just say I'm not impressed. Read the rest of this entry →

Yaffa Benizri: My Husband has Never Seen my Hair

July 25, 2009 By: elana Category: Gender Politics and Society

Yaffa Benizri, wife of convicted former MK Shlomo Benizri of Shas, gave a bizarre interview to Yediot Aharonot last week. I suppose we shouldn't be surprised at her insistence that her husband is innocent. After all, so what if the courts of the State of Israel upheld his conviction on bribery and other charges? It's just the State. God and Wife know the Truth. Obviously. Nevertheless, there were some other strange aspects to Mrs. Benizri's comments. It wasn't only how upset she is about her current financial situation -- "The paint is peeling on my walls," she cried, as if that will gain sympathy among Israelis from whom Benizri stole money. What was really off was her description of her whole relationship with her husband. Read the rest of this entry →

Big News: Big Naked Woman takes Front Cover of “AT”

July 22, 2009 By: elana Category: Women's body

This month\'s cover of AT Magazine There I was, counting my change at the check-out counter and making sure the guy was packing my eggs carefully when I was struck by this unbelievable image. Right there in the magazine rack, amongst the air-brushed anorectics meant to look 10 years old, this cover suddenly grabbed my attention and held it. I couldn't look away. I was positively entranced. What was such a full-bodied, fully-imperfect woman doing posing nude of all places on the cover of At? This mag, the Israeli version of Cosmo, or maybe a bit of Redbook, is the place where women continuously learn that they are never good enough. Not pretty enough, not thin enough, not rich enough, not successful enough, not good enough cooks or good enough mothers or even good enough house cleaners. (Yes, I was shocked to discover that "women's mags" in Israel have house-keeping sections.) Yet, here in this space something radical is happening. A fat women. Naked. I looked around, wondering if anyone else could sense the change in the air. This is just radical. Did Mashiach come and I missed it? Am I stuck in Seinfeld's bizarro world? Do I need a new prescription for my glasses? Or am I just dreaming. Wow, something is happening. But mostly, I couldn't get over Irit Kaplan, the woman on the cover. How brazen, I thought. How self-confident. She is so out there, so comfortable in her skin, happy to be alive and taking up space, in all her beautiful glory. Now that is truly, profoundly sensual -- that is, the sight of a woman who truly loves her body, not because of societal expectations but just, well, because. Wow. I was blown away by the whole thing. Or maybe I was just jealous. Read the rest of this entry →

On Pirates of Penzance and Planned Parenthood

July 21, 2009 By: elana Category: Judaism and Feminism, Kolech, Orthodox feminism, Parenting, Religion and gender, Women's body

Singing the Pirates of Penzance with my five-year old daughter, Meital, reminds me that children are joy. Sure. But that doesn't mean we should be encouraging young couples to have lots and lots of kids fast, as did a recent Ynet columnist. I much prefer to hear the wisdom of Kolech's Malka Petrekovsky, a brave trailblazer in promoting family planning for religious couples. Read the rest of this entry →

Orthodox Judaism, Stanley Milgram, and Obedience to the Black Coats of Authority

July 18, 2009 By: elana Category: Israeli society

As I watched the violence in Jerusalem over the past weeks and listened to the accompanying rhetoric, I thought about Stanley Milgram. A social psychologist who studied patterns of human conformity (that is, why people tend to follow group behavior), Dr. Milgram conducted the famous experiments about “obedience to authority”, in which he pretty easily got people to administer presumably life-threatening electric shocks to other people just by telling them that they had to. “The experiment requires that you continue,” he told his subjects, who listened to the screams of those receiving the shocks (well, actors, unbeknownst to the shocker). “It is absolutely essential that you continue,” he would say, or, “You have no other choice, you must go on.” In a surprise even to himself, 65 percent of experiment participants administered the experiment's final 450-volt shock – a statistic that was replicated in later studies around the world. Only one participant absolutely refused to administer shocks before the 300-volt level. Moreover, according to Philip Zimbardo, none of the participants who refused to administer the final shocks insisted that the experiment itself be stopped, nor left the room to check on the victim. I’ve been thinking about this as I wonder what motivates throngs of yeshiva students to abandon all human morality and violently destroy a city – their OWN city – and threaten the lives of other human beings, be them police, social service workers, or secular Israelis. I think that part of the answer can be found in Milgram’s analysis of obedience to authority. Read the rest of this entry →

Orr Shalom for Foster Children presents: Open Air Photography Exhibition in TA Port

July 16, 2009 By: elana Category: Social Activism

My friend Elise Rynhold who works for Orr Shalom sent in this important post. It's a very special organization and I look forward to seeing the exhibition: Orr Shalom, Israel's largest non-profit organization providing out-of-home care and therapeutic services to 1,300 children who have been removed from their homes by the social welfare services due to severe abuse and/or neglect, is showcasing an open-air photography exhibition entitled "Child, Home, Light" at the Tel Aviv Port this summer. The unique exhibition offers a rare glimpse into the world of the children for whom Orr Shalom cares. Read the rest of this entry →

Watch Jpost Video of Kolech Conference: Call the Woman a Rabbi

July 15, 2009 By: elana Category: Kolech, Leadership, Orthodox feminism

Here's a video about the Kolech conference from Jpost, "What to call a woman rabbi?" The answer to me is obvious: call her rabbi! JPost Video: What to call a woman rabbi? Thanks Joel Katz for another great hattip Read the rest of this entry →

Orthodox Women may be Ordained in Israel

July 14, 2009 By: elana Category: Agunot, Judaism and Feminism, Kolech, Orthodox feminism, Women in Israel

The rabbinic ordination of women – smicha – is one of the simplest items on the religious agenda today, according to Rabbi Yoel Bin Nun of Herzog College. Speaking at the Sixth Annual conference of the Kolech Orthodox Feminist institution in Jerusalem this week, Bin Nun argued that there is no problem whatsoever with women getting smicha, and that in fact, quite a few women have served as rabbis in Jewish history. Bin Nun brought examples from Talmudic times through Hassidic life of women who were rabbis in terms of both scholarship and communal leaders, and maintained that there has never been a problem with women's ordination in halakha or in practice. Read the rest of this entry →