Elana Sztokman

For Serious Jewish Women

Archive for June, 2009

It’s about the Women

June 23, 2009 By: elana Category: Gender Politics and Society, Religion and gender

Published in today's Jerusalem Post: It took the tragic killing of Neda Soltan in Iran for the world to realize that the lives – and deaths – of women are at the center of the struggle for human rights against religious extremism. The astounding protests taking place in Iran over the past week, since the fraudulent victory of Islamic extremist Mahmoud Ahmadinejad over Mir-Hossein Mousavi Khameneh, is really a story about women. According to an article in last weekend’s Yediyot Aharonot, written in collaboration with an inside Iranian journalist, the protests were started not by supporters of Massawi but rather by supporters of his wife Zahra Rahnavard. It was Rahnavard, a professor of art history, author of over a dozen books on art, former government minister and former chancellor of Alzahra University in Tehran, who called for the protests when the altered results came in. (She and her husband were originally told that they won, and then several hours later the official announcement was changed.) The million protesters running to the streets calling for an end to radical Islamic rule in Iran came because of her not him. In fact, what you might not read in the media is that at the beginning, most of the protesters were women. Read the rest of this entry →

Ode to a (very nice) Husband in Uniform

June 15, 2009 By: admin Category: Feminism for Boys

My husband went to a month of reserve duty, miluim, and now I'm back to doing laundry. Oh, of course there are other things that I miss about Jacob not being here, but laundry has given him a special presence in my life. It all started around a year or two ago when I was experiencing what I have come to describe as death by laundry. I'm sure it's familiar to many of you: the sense that laundry is taking over your house, your life, growing in mountains, never going away, never stopping, taking on an increasingly ominous personality, like the "Feed me, Seymour!" plant. I thought at one point, if I saw one more person sift through a pile of socks to find a pair and then walk off without bothering to sort the rest, I might just ignite a sock bonfire and let them all go sockless forever, smelly sneakers be damned. Read the rest of this entry →

Speaking “Civilized” in the Israeli Workplace

June 14, 2009 By: admin Category: Israeli society

I'm collecting stories of English speakers in the Israeli workplace. Frustrations, challenges, and moments when you feel like tearing your hair out. Like when someone prints up a thousand brochures without noticing that the word "April" is not capitalized, and is on the front page. Or when someone walks up to you when you're in the middle of a conversation and just starts talking to you -- and fully expects you to be listening. Or when someone asks you to take on a project that's due, like, in ten minutes. Things like that. Tell me YOUR stories..... Read the rest of this entry →

Between Halakha and Pedophilia

June 11, 2009 By: admin Category: Gender and Education, Judaism and Feminism, Women's body

I don't know about you, but I'm a little uncomfortable with the way rabbis and poskim freely discuss the bodies of little girls. Sure, we can call it halakha if we want. But really, when rabbis talk about how girls need to cover their bodies, aren't they bordering, just a tad, on pedophilia? What exactly do rabbis mean when they say that a girl needs to wear skirts? Or long sleeves? Or whatever latest mishugas is on the order of the day, from braids to socks to cellphones? Read the rest of this entry →

On Obama, Hijab, and Women

June 10, 2009 By: admin Category: Gender Politics and Society

When President Obama uttered the words "women's rights" during his speech at Cairo University last week, my ears perked up. The fact that a US president is putting women's rights up there on the international agenda -- on par with peace in the Middle East, no less -- is indeed historic. That he has the guts to say to a room full of Egyptian men that women's rights in the Muslim world are a topic that needs addressing, was quite a thrill. The fact that there was some applause after he made that opening statement, "the sixth issue that I want to address is women's rights," was absolutely startling. Signs of change, perhaps. But when Obama started to outline the details of his vision for women's rights in the Muslim world, that's when I started to bristle. Read the rest of this entry →