Elana Sztokman

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Archive for May, 2009

Ruth, Conversion, and the Tragedy of the Israeli Beit Din

May 27, 2009 By: admin Category: Bible, Women in Israel

I would like to dedicate this post to my friend Ariella Zeller, who taught me everything about women, friendship, and love. Despite rumors to the contrary, I am fairly certain that Ruth did not convert to Judaism. At least not by today’s standards. Even though we celebrate Ruth as the quintessential convert, the fact is, she became Jewish without doing any of the things that the rabbis would have demanded of her in the modern state of Israel. The Book of Ruth has no mention of dipping naked into mikva. There is no mention of three haredi men watching, and asking her all kinds of prodding questions. There is no interrogation. No studying of halakha for years. No coming to her house and checking how she makes tea on Shabbat. I mean, chances are she didn’t even keep Shabbat or kashruth. What, you think when Naomi left Israel to be the only Jews in Moab, her sons married Moabite women but she was actually using two sets of dishes and putting a plata on her stove on Shabbat? It’s ridiculous. Elimelech and Naomi left Israel for ten years without ever looking back. They left because there was a famine and bread was more important than heritage. The Jewish people was not important to Elimelech, he let his sons marry local women, and never made plans to go back to Israel. So, really, what are the chances that he kept a kosher home over there in Moab? I’d say between slim and nil. Ruth probably never even heard of Shabbat. Read the rest of this entry →

A message from my friend Elli Sacks: Have hope….

May 27, 2009 By: admin Category: Judaism and Feminism, Leadership, Orthodox feminism

So.... following my previous blog post in which I criticized the whole creation of this Maharat creature, my friend Elli Sacks, a great guy with a feminist spirit and genuine care for women's well-being, took issue with my position. He took the time to argue with me on facebook (I know, adults are supposed to do these things on twitter, so I guess I'm not quite an adult yet). So I asked his permission to share some of his points here. Read the rest of this entry →

Maharat Yeshiva: Step forward or backward for women?

May 25, 2009 By: admin Category: Jewish women, Judaism and Feminism, Leadership, Orthodox feminism

The blogosphere is abuzz with news of the new program opening up for women to become clergy in the Orthodox world. “Maharat,” the title being granted to women graduates of the program, a cumbersome acronym for something like “spiritual, religious, Torah teacher,” is being touted by JOFA as “an historic moment for the Jewish people” in that it “ordains” women as “clergy.” JOFA announced that Sara Hurwitz, the first Maharat in history, “has passed the same tests required for rabbinic ordination that entitle men to be called Rabbi. We trust that Yeshivat Mahara"t will offer this same opportunity to other qualified women so that they can take their rightful position in Orthodox leadership.” Although it is encouraging to see so many people come out in support of women’s advancement in Jewish life, the announcement is disingenuous and troubling. Read the rest of this entry →

Calcalist: “All the Big Names” means 16 men and ONE woman

May 24, 2009 By: admin Category: Women and economics

A gigantic two-page spread in this weekend's newspapers advertising an economic conference by Calcalist and Psagot advertises "ALL THE BIG NAMES" with photos of these big names -- and they include 16 men and only one woman. Have the planners no shame whatsoever? Is there not one person in either of these organizations who can look at this and see something is wrong? Read the rest of this entry →

What the question, “What does your husband do?” really means

May 21, 2009 By: admin Category: Women and economics

I was sitting with a client last week, a man who directs a not for profit for whom I’m doing some grant-writing. He told me he has a new project for me, to write a 15-page marketing document, “But we cannot pay you,” he added. The organization has no money, he explained, and then he gently asked me if I would be willing to do this “not as a volunteer,” but with the understanding that I would be paid “eventually,” or “some time in the future”. I smiled politely and said that I’m grateful that he is not asking me to volunteer because I do quite a bit of volunteer work and can’t take on any more, and that this is my livelihood. And then it came, the question that always comes in conversations like this: “What does your husband do?” Read the rest of this entry →

Ilana Teitelbaum on the oppressiveness of “Modesty” or “Tznius”

May 20, 2009 By: admin Category: Gender and Education, Schooling, Women's body

Ilana Teitelbaum, in "'What not to wear' should never be more than a TV show", , offers an insightful, intelligent and personal account of how rules of women's dress are oppressive, an essay that reminded me of some of my own high school experiences:

I grew up with an enforced code of modesty, and was implacably shaped by the attitudes that go with such an upbringing. I was raised an Orthodox Jew in a stringently Orthodox Jerusalem neighborhood. I grew up under the constant, watchful eyes of teachers, principals and neighbors who would make an instant judgment about me if my attire did not conform to the strict standards of Orthodox Jewish law. One teacher in the tenth grade, an internationally respected rabbi, singled me out in the middle of class for a tongue-lashing because I was wearing my hair loose on my shoulders. In the ultra-Orthodox community, such licentious display of a girl’s hair is a flagrant offense.Coming from a community in America where such standards are more relaxed, this was my first exposure to the rule. My homeroom teacher later told our class that this same rabbi would have fainted if he had known we were wearing knee socks instead of tights under our duty-length skirts (trousers, which reveal the legs and groin, are expressly forbidden). I suppose it’s a good thing he never looked up our skirts, though I can’t help wondering why he would be thinking about what was under them in the first place.
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Call for Papers: Kolech Conference on Orthodox Feminism 2009

May 19, 2009 By: admin Category: Kolech, Orthodox feminism

Kolech, the leading Orthodox feminist organization in Israel, will be holding its bi-annual conference on Women and Judaism on Monday, July 13, 2009, at the Keshet School in Jerusalem. This is a vital and vibrant arena for engaging discussions and exchanges about gender and Judaism in Israeli society. The Kolech conferences are a critical forum for placing on the public agenda dilemmas, issues, and critical debates about topics surrounding the lives of Orthodox women in Israel. It is not too late to submit a proposal for a session. It is not too late to submit a proposal for a session. Read the rest of this entry →

Women Can Save Accidental Drug Smugglers by Wearing Rubber Soles

May 15, 2009 By: admin Category: Gender Politics and Society, Jewish women, Women's body

Ladies of Israel! Wonderful news! The secret truth about God's justice has been finally revealed, in all places, in women's shoes. Yes, Orthodox Jewish women can save men's souls by paying attention to their own soles. According to an advertisement in last week's Five Towns Jewish News, "sisters" are urged to bring redemption and salvation to the poor yeshiva boys who were arrested in Japan and sentenced to eight years in prison for "accidentally" smuggling 90,000 Ecstasy pills. The mother of one of the guys published this advert, in which she claims to be suffering "mental anguish and agony," and to have "large sums of money" to help her son, some of which she has obviously now allocated to this vital cause of saving her son by getting women to follow rules of "tznius". Read the rest of this entry →

JOFA Presents: Bible Workshop for Teachers

May 14, 2009 By: admin Category: Bible, Gender and Education, Judaism and Feminism, Orthodox feminism

The Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance will be conducting a workshop for educators of Humash on Sunday, May 17, 2009 from 9 am to 2 pm at the Drisha Institute for Jewish Education. Through the workshop, JOFA seeks to develop a community of practice among participants, reinforce the approach of its curricula, and provide ongoing peer support for teachers. Read the rest of this entry →

The Katzav Trial: Historic shift or more of the same?

May 14, 2009 By: admin Category: Gender Politics and Society, Violence against women, Women in Israel, Women's body

Today is a very important day for women in Israel. This morning opened the rape and sexual assault trial of former President of Israel Moshe Katzav. Today is the day we will begin to find out whether Israel is ready to tackle the issue of violence against women, even in halls of power, or whether the good ol' boys club will continue to dominate public opinion. I'm cautiously optimistic that there have been some signs of change, but I'm going to be following events carefully. Read the rest of this entry →